Alison Jill

relationship coach

guiding singles and couples
to transform painful patterns
into fulfilling connection

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Our sessions are shaped uniquely by and specific to you

Our work together is catered to YOU. I will take your lead to support you in cultivating more awareness, safety, authenticity, compassion and understanding with yourself and in your relationships. ALL people and relationship statuses - single, partnered, dating - are welcome.

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Sessions for Individuals

$80

Whether you're dating, in a relationship, or single and processing your relationship past and future, we can work together to shed light on your biggest questions, areas of confusion, and exploration of self so that you can conduct your relationships (including the one with yourself) from a more empowered, self-loving place.
1 hour

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Couple's Sessions

$122

I will offer compassionate and respectful reflections, treating your relationship as a third entity - highlighting its strengths while supporting its pain points. We will honor each individual's autonomy, while creating a solid foundation for beneficial connection.
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Sessions specifically for Men

$80

Many heterosexual men are either feeling deeply misunderstood and/or frustrated by not knowing how to identify and do something about what is expected of them. I see that a lot of men WANT to give, but are losing momentum because they may feel shamed and dismissed, unappreciated, or are confused. I would be honored to connect with you, as a woman, to guide you and give you experiential practice of how to navigate men-women relationships.
1 hour

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Sessions specifically for Anxious Attachers

$80

I personally know the intensity and often agony!, of how anxious attachment feels when dating and in relationship. Our goal in working together will not be to "get rid of" it; but rather learn as much as possible about how it presents, and then how to manage it with gentle compassion and more wisdom. Our goal is to make sure anxiety isn't hijacking the connection you really want. We will also identify core needs and desires so you still get to be you, but within a container of direct, boundaried and grounded communication.
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Human Design Individual Recording

$65

Human Design is a system based on your birth time, date and place that gives you a blueprint of how you are designed to operate in this world. This will be a recorded reading (approximately one hour) about general aspects of your individual chart and how it applies to relationships.

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Human Design Synastry Recording

$75

Human Design is a system based on your birth time, date and place that gives you a blueprint of how you are designed to operate in this world. This will be a recorded reading (approximately one hour) detailing the interactions of two people's charts and how the dynamics present in their relationship.

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About Me

I believe humanity is in a pivotal transition moving from unconscious pain and fear behavior - control - to more awareness of informed, loving behavior - connection. We're aching to remember the safety that comes from being connected within and to each other. I have a degree in Social Work, and am a Somatica® trained coach from the Somatica Institute for Intimacy and Relationship Coaching. I am also a Certified Human Design Reader, trained in Human Garage fascial maneuvers (humangarage.net) and have taken classes in holistic nutrition. My most profound and effective training, however, has been my own relationships and life experiences.
I unexpectedly became a mother in my early 20's and was confronted with becoming a mother at a time when I was still forming my autonomous adult identity and in a relationship that had a big, gaping hole that I didn't know exactly what it was or how to address. I felt profoundly alone, depressed, anxious, and confused. By the time my daughter was two, the substance addiction plaguing our relationship had been identified, and I knew she needed healthy parents apart more than she needed us unhealthily together. Co-parenting apart when pain was still present was an arduous journey, as was trying to establish my sense of self, career and being present as a single parent to the person I loved most. I battled depression and anxiety the next 15 years, while mostly unconsciously playing out my painful patterns of anxious attachment and codependency in romantic relationships. I wandered down the path again of being with people struggling with addictions, experiencing emotional and verbal abuse, and involved with many partners who weren't, for one reason or another, committing to the relationship. I chased the connection I was seeking with the people hardest to get it from, because then I could prove to myself I was in fact, worthy of love - I did matter. Throughout that time period, I was also confronting and discovering my inner - shadow and light - world. I started to connect more with the truth of me, and see the connection we all have to each other. I didn't want to be a victim anymore, I wanted to be the creator we all are. I didn't want to see my previous partners as "bad" but that they were experiencing disconnection, too. My passion now is to work with people who are choosing new, more loving ways of relating with themselves and others.

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